Musings
Practicing discernment
Much of what I do comes down to one thing: consciously choosing and supporting what gives life, over what dims it. Moving away from what diminishes potential. That sounds big, and while it can be quite the hassle at times, it lives in small things. When you see it, you can't not see it. It's in looking for that moment when eyes light up. Noticing the instant movement toward or away from something. It's taking a right turn instead of [...]
The big in-between
I'm in the middle of a transition and have no idea what comes next. Time and space have been feeling distorted for a while now (you know that's the sign of liminal space, right?). Not talking months or weeks, years. I can sense the new coming, but can't feel into it yet. So ready for some solid ground under my feet, an understanding of who I am again. I know, this is the time for more ritual than task. More [...]
Questions that make a difference
Can you remember the last time you felt moved by the right question? I’m a big believer in the value of asking questions. To me, it is refreshing being with people that hold questions. It's an art form. One that I'd like to see practiced more, by many of us, as a tool for discovery, creativity and alignment. When I facilitate a meeting or workshop, I begin with asking questions as a tool for focus and connection. Here is a [...]
First training of Big Hearted Academy: Impact & Personal development
Early January I registered the name Big Hearted Academy, an initiative I've been working on with a few wonderful people. As it is slow and steady work, for the time being, we use our network and this corner of the internet to share updates. And we developed our signature programme! We're inviting courageous people who want to both consciously and practically contribute to the development of others. 🧡 What? Two-day training, with an interval of at least two weeks. 💸 [...]
Getting started with a check-in? Here’s how to.
Doing a proper check-in has a great effect on your collaboration. You have to take some time for it, though, to avoid it becoming an unconscious routine. In this blog you’ll read my tips on how to use the check-in as a tool for more focus, attention and connection in the meeting that follows. What is a check-in? Imagine checking in at an airport: you go to the counter and confirm you are present. Like all other travelers do. The [...]